The bed was about
forty-five years old when Mom passed it along to me a few months after my
father died. I decided to strip the wood and refinish it for my daughter
Melanie. The headboard was full of scratches. Just before starting
to take the paint off, I noticed that one of the scratches was a date:
September 18, 1946, the day my parents were married. Then it struck me – this
was the first Omega Replica Watches bed they had as husband and wife! Right above their wedding
date was another name and date “Elizabeth, October 22, 1947.” My mother answered the phone. “Who is Elizabeth,” I asked, “and what does October 22, 1947, mean?” “She’s
your sister.” I knew Mom had lost a baby,
but I never saw this as any-thing more than a misfortune for my parents. After all,
they went on to have five more children. “You gave her a name?” I asked. “Yes. Elizabeth has been watching us from heaven for forty-five years. She’s as much a part of me as any of you.” “Mom, there are a lot of dates and names I don’t recognize on the headboard.” “June 8, 1959?” Mom asked. “Yes. It
says ‘Sam.’” “Sam was a black man
who worked for your father at the plant. Your father was fair with everyone,
treating those under him with equal respect, no matter what their race or
religion. But there was a lot of racial tension at that time. There was also a
union strike and a lot of trouble. “One night, some strikers surrounded your dad before he got to his car. Sam showed up with several friends, and the crowd dispersed. No one was hurt. The strike eventually ended, but your dad never forgot Sam. He said Sam was an answer to his prayer.” “Mom, there are other dates on the headboard. May I come over and
talk to you about them?” I sensed the headboard was full of stories. I couldn’t
just strip and sand them away. Over lunch, Mom told me about January 14, 1951, the day she lost her purse at a department store. Three days later, the purse arrived in the mail. A letter from a woman named
Amy said: “I took five dollars from your wallet to mail the purse to you. I
hope you will understand.” There was no return address, so Mom couldn’t thank
her, and there was nothing missing except the five dollars. Then there was George. On December 15, 1967, George shot a rattlesnake poised to strike my brother Dominick. On September 18, 1971, my parents celebrated their silver wedding anniversary and renewed their vows. I learned about a nurse named Janet who stayed by my mother and prayed with her after my sister Patricia’s near-fatal fall from a swing. There was a stranger who broke up the attempted mugging of my father but left without giving his name. “Who is Ralph?” I asked. “On
February 18, 1966, Ralph saved your brother’s life in Da Nang. Ralph was killed
two years later on his second tour of duty.” My brother never spoke
about the Vietnam War. The memories were deeply buried. My nephew’s name is
Ralph. Now I knew why. “I almost stripped away these remarkable stories,” I said. “How could you give this headboard to me?” “Your dad and I carved our first date on the headboard the night we
married. From then on, it was a diary of our life together. When Dad died, our
life together was over. But the memories never die.” When I told my husband
about the headboard, he said, “There’s room for a lot more stories.” We moved the bed with
the story-book headboard into our room. My husband and I have already carved in
three dates and names: Barbara and Greg and Jackson. Someday, we’ll tell
Melanie the stories from her grandparents’ lives and the stories from her
parents’ lives. And someday, the bed will pass on to her. |
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